Marriage & Relationships
The Marriage Quiz
A moment to pause, reflect, and take the temperature of your marriage.
Every marriage needs care.
Whether your marriage feels strong, uncertain, or somewhere in between, taking a moment to reflect on your relationship can help you recognise what is going well and where there may be room for growth.
This Marriage Quiz is designed to help you reflect on three important areas of your relationship: intimacy, commitment, and passion.
It is not a diagnostic test, and your result is not a verdict on your marriage. Rather, it is an opportunity to pause, reflect honestly, and consider what your marriage may need at this stage.
Answer each question based on what you genuinely feel is characteristic of your marriage at present.
This quiz is for reflection and educational purposes only. It is not a clinical or diagnostic assessment and should not be used on its own to determine the health or future of a marriage.
How to complete the quiz
Rate each statement from 1–9.
- 1 = Not at all
- 5 = Moderately
- 9 = Extremely
Question 1 of 15
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Questions About the Quiz
- Can this quiz tell me if my marriage is in trouble?
- This quiz is not a diagnostic test, but it can help you reflect on areas of your marriage that may need care and attention. Your result is simply a starting point for reflection and should not be treated as a definitive assessment of your relationship.
- What does the Marriage Quiz measure?
- The quiz looks at three important areas of marriage: intimacy, commitment, and passion. Together, these questions provide an opportunity to reflect on emotional connection, commitment, closeness and other aspects of your relationship.
- What should I do after taking the quiz?
- Take some time to reflect on your result. Consider what is already working well in your marriage and where there may be room for growth. You may find our Marriage & Relationships resources helpful. If you feel that additional support would benefit you, you can also explore couples counselling with Baṣirah Care.
- Is this quiz only for couples in trouble?
- No. This quiz can be useful for couples who are experiencing difficulties, but it can also be valuable for couples who are doing well and simply want to be more intentional about caring for their marriage. Every marriage benefits from attention, communication and continued effort.
- Should my spouse and I take the quiz together?
- You can complete the quiz individually and then discuss your reflections with your spouse if you feel comfortable doing so. You may also choose to complete it separately and compare what each of you noticed. The purpose is reflection, not scoring one another.
Marriage is a garden.
It needs attention before the weeds take over.
And even when they have, there is still value in asking:
What can we do next?
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